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Practical Philosophy

The Hourglass Neck of Now

Time expands out away from us in either direction. In the present moment, right now, there aren't all that many possibilities you need to consider and worry about; there isn't really much to do. Now is simple because it's so close. As we get further away -- in either the past or future direction -- we get the option to entertain all kinds of possibilities like "What if...?" and "It would be nice if...".

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Grand Canyon National Park: Watching Cloud Show from Mather Poin
Communication

Talking About the Weather to Gain Trust

When I think back on the things that I believed as a self-assured young twenty-something, one of the more glaringly dumb ideas that comes to mind was my distaste for "small talk." I even wrote an essay on this site pretty clearly (and aggressively) elaborating my reasons. Surely, there was some merit to it — even today I can find constant discussion of the weather, sporting events, or other recent news, kind of dull — but it was blind to a whole other facet of reality.

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