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Communication

The Two Currencies of Relationships

Every good relationship contains two things: intimacy and mutual service. I don't just mean romantic relationships; whenever you find a relationship valuable, it is because you're getting at least one of those two needs met by that relationship. When you find a relationship hard to sustain, or damaging, it's because it fails to provide (or provides negative and damaging forms of) these two qualities.

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Life

Simple Truths, Commuting, and Wisdom

Anyone who's been reading Frozen Toothpaste long knows all too well about my theory that just about every important truth about life can be quickly reduced to a statement so banal that people ignore it. The classic example I reach for is "money can't buy happiness", which almost everyone acquiesces to at some level. Few people dispute the truth of the idea, and yet people run themselves ragged in dogged pursuit of money.

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Technofuturism

Money as a Game

I've been thinking a fair amount lately about the idea of "gamification"--yes, it's an atrocious word but a useful concept. I'm sure there's value in thinking about how we can bring the most successful aspects of games into the concrete world of physical people and objects. I know there are many activities I should be doing that I'm not. Many tasks that the right game-like inducements could make automatic, and maybe even enjoyable.

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