Practical Philosophy

What Do Your Thoughts Mean?

One of the subtler but more important things that has changed in my life is that I’ve stopped believing my thoughts. It’s not that I can’t think. No, I’m not saying I'm no longer able to productively puzzle through hard problems — if anything I’ve gotten better at that. What I mean is that I’m much less prone to identify with and believe in my thoughts.

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Life

The Long Game of Kindness

Living creatures, by their nature, find it hard to think, plan, and act for the long term. For millennia life on this planet has survived because it acts, first and foremost, to do what it is best for it in the short term. This near-term greed allows living creatures to keep being alive, and that's really their most important quality. Anything else they may or may not accomplish is secondary.

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Life

Presence not Presents

My war on gift-giving earns just about as much criticism as it does confusion, so I think it makes sense to lay the argument out here. To start: there is a strong economic case against gift giving. It's based on things like gift-givers routinely paying more for their present than the receiver values it at, that a large percentage of gift cards--the latest way out of the gift giving puzzle--go unredeemed and are inherently inefficient even when they are, that we (in the rich world) frequently want for nothing and so are given things we definitionally do not want, and the fact that people get little enjoyment or economic benefit out of either giving or recieving gifts and yet spend a great deal of time and money doing it. All those arguments are valid, rational, and widely greeted with a "yeah, well, but economics sucks." So I'll set that whole area aside, if you're interested I'd recommend the reasonably short, accessible, and available Scroogenomics: Why You Shouldn't Buy Presents for the Holidays.

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Productivity

Flow Traps

One of the more popular psychological ideas in the public sphere is that of "flow." The idea, originated by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, is that we'll get more done and enjoy it more when we're given a level of challenge to keep us engaged and exercising a sense of mastery. One shouldn't have to look very hard at their life to find times when work has been easy, fun, and "flow"ing.

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