Today is Father’s Day. As is his custom, Frank Warren, PostSecret‘s curator, has posted a number of lovely and heart-breaking secrets from people all over the country. And though the site is not without it’s failings (most notably that secrets only stay up for a week), it’s consistently fascinating to read other people’s anonymously disclosed secrets. It’s a kind of immediate intimacy that seems to never get old.

In case you’re too lazy to give it a look, here are two of my personal favorites from this Father’s (though shouldn’t it be Fathers’?) Day.